In the spirit of equal opportunity I have also found some advice for woman who are getting married to pair with the recent advice for men. Some choice bits of advice from the article:"Some young women actually anticipate the wedding night ordeal with curiosity and pleasure! Beware such an attitude! A selfish and sensual husband can easily take advantage of such a bride. One cardinal rule of marriage should never be forgotten: GIVE LITTLE, GIVE SELDOM, AND ABOVE ALL, GIVE GRUDGINGLY. Otherwise what could have been a proper marriage could become an orgy of sexual lust."Luckily the ladies are not alone in this struggle:
"One heartening factor for which the wife can be grateful is the fact that the husband's home, school, church, and social environment have been working together all through his life to instill in him a deep sense of guilt in regards to his sexual feelings, so that he comes to the marriage couch apologetically and filled with shame, already half cowed and subdued. The wise wife seizes upon this advantage and relentlessly pursues her goal first to limit, later to annihilate completely her husband's desire for sexual expression."I do hope that the recent marriage advice has been useful and evenhanded.
(via utility fog, via neatorama, vi arbroath, via humor.beecy.net)
tags: sexism, marriage
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